Ageplay – This is my most important kink, and I usually find erotic stories disappointing if they don’t include this in some way. For my purposes, I define ageplay as a sexual fantasy involving a character who is not an adult.
I haven’t counted, but if you look through my site, you’ll see that I enjoy playing older more than I like to play younger. That is, there are more stories here involving little boys than there are about little girls.
When role playing, I am often asked what age ranges work for me. I am comfortable playing any age. However, while extreme ages can be fun, they usually don’t make much sense in a story. My usual answer is that for girls, I like ages 7-15, and for boys, 8-15. Right in the middle of those ranges is the sweet spot.
Incest – I really love incest fantasy, and most of my prompts include it, or at least raise the possibility.
Taboo – This word can mean almost anything, but most people use it to mean relationships for which nookie is forbidden, and by that they mostly mean incest. However, there are other taboo relationships I can enjoy. Think teachers, babysitters, therapists, pastors, etc.
Celebrities – This isn’t really a kink, but I enjoy role playing female celebrities so much that I include it in my kink list. When I get a chance, I’ll create a page listing the celebrities I know and can enjoy playing. I’m afraid it will date me, because there are a lot of newer celebrities I haven’t heard of, and many I can’t understand why men like them.
Clothing – I love it when men are turned on by clothing kinks. Lingerie, and especially panties, stockings, pantyhose, shoes, CFNM, clothed sex, etc.
Groups – I don’t want to say one-on-one sex is boring, but …
Cum Play – Swallowing cum, cum swapping, hyperspermia, drinking cum, felching (what a terrible word), and of course facials and cumming on my body.
Public – Public nudity, sex in public (especially if it is humiliating). This, like most of my kinks, is just as applicable to boys as girls.
Exhibitionism – I love the idea of being seen and appreciated. It doesn’t have to be in public; it could be at a private party or club. Of course, I love helping little boys have the opportunity to show off too, even if they’re embarrassed.
Humiliation – I love to be humiliated and degraded, not so much by words as through situations. I love humiliating my partner’s characters, too.
Embarrassed Naked Female (ENF) – This is more a category of cheesy fetish video than a kink. You know, the wind blows a woman’s dress off?
Bondage – Different people get different things out of bondage. For me, I enjoy the idea of being vulnerable, helpless, and taken advantage of.
Mind Control – I love being made to do things against my will (see below), and mind control is one way to do that. I especially like it when I am aware that I am being controlled, and I hate it.
Hypnosis – A form of mind control. A lot of the hypnosis video out there focuses on turning girls into mindless zombies, but that doesn’t translate well to written stories.
Dubious Consent (Dub-Con) – Blackmail, being forced by financial or other circumstances, laws that take away my rights. The key here is that I don’t want to do it, I wouldn’t consent under normal circumstances, but I will go through with it because I have to.
Rape (Non-Con) – Physically violent rape or forced sex. This also include drugging. I like it alright, although honestly I mostly play this because my role playing partner needs it.
Orientation Play – Forced bisexuality (boys or girls), lesbians having sex with men.
Accomplice Play – That thing you want to do that is forbidden and wrong? What if you knew a girl who was eager to help you do it?
Betrayal – Similar to accomplice play. Someone trusted by a character betrays them and hurts them for the sexual pleasure of another.
Submission/Domination – To be honest, I don’t really think about these things the way other people do. I’m capable of doing them intentionally, but more often, there’s naturally a degree of one or the other in most of my stories, and I just don’t think about it. I’m not a huge fan of domination that involves yelling or threatening; I prefer to accept that someone has authority of others. (Tags on this site: Domination = Mail Domination, Femdom = Female Domination)
Freeuse – Mainstream porn has messed this up recently, so if you were born yesterday, you may have the wrong idea of what freeuse is. Freeuse is not ignore sex, where someone basically ignores you while you have sex with them.
Freeuse is a form of dubious consent. It is the circumstance of someone being free to be used sexually, without any need for immediate consent. Who is free to be used by whom varies, as does the circumstances leading up to it. It could be that the dominant family patriarch has declared that all the female holes in the house are free to be used by any male in the house. It could be an individual who has the bizarre legal right to have sex with anyone they meet in public. It could be a nanny who has agreed in advance and in writing to be sexually available to the male members of the wealthy family who has hired her. It could be a private resort where the rules upon entry include the implicit consent to sex with whomever wants you.
Objectification – I am an intelligent woman with valid feelings, and I am here to tell you that it turns me on to be treated as nothing more than a piece of fuckmeat.
Misogyny – The idea that I have less worth because I am a woman. I especially love it when I hate it.
Raceplay – This is another thing I do mostly for my role play partner’s benefit. In truth, I’m a white woman, but I’ll play any race you want, and I’ll do my best to be degraded by the way you treat me.
Servitude – [I’m not sure why I have this listed as a separate kink.] This is basically the ultimate of submission. I will eagerly do whatever you say, whatever you want, and I will like it.
Impregnation – I figured out why I like this so much: If someone impregnates me, then they sort of own me. I have lost my independence and my own agency, and now my purpose is to have your baby. My life has been ruined in a moment because I let you cum inside me. And if I trusted you to pull out, then you betrayed me, too.
Lactation – This is both literally and metaphorically the ultimate expression of caring and nurturing, and when it is combined with sex, it stirs powerful emotions, for both the giver and the receiver.
Baby Talk – Another thing that doesn’t translate well to written stories, but I still love to talk to a character as if they are young and sweet and innocent. It’s a matter of enthusiasm. And exclamation points.
Small Penis Humiliation/Encouragement (SPH/SPE) – I know your penis isn’t really that small, but we can pretend that it is, because I know you like it.
Premature Ejaculation – Okay, this one probably is real. I’ll be happy to humiliate you about this, or I guess encourage you.
Cock and Ball Torture (CBT) – Now this is some femdom I know I can get right. Too bad for you.
While I’ve listed the main kinks I am interested in, I am certainly open to others for the sake of accommodating a partner.